Friendzoning....

... bah.. is there anything worse a girl you like can tell you than "Oh no.. I could never do that with you.. I would be afraid, that our friendship would break afterwards.." It seems a constant problem for myself.. and you know what.. I hate it.. Stubbornly I am a guy who needs to get in contact with girls to think of a person as a really attractive and interesting person.. a person to love... and care.. sadly.. when I realize it.. it's always to late.. I hate that damn friend zone.. :( Has somebody an idea to change that.. without changing my whole self.. `?